Today has been the extreme of emotions. I became an uncle again today. A proud uncle to a beautiful baby girl. Her name is Alex Xara Fernandez. She was born today 2nd of November 2006 at 11am and she left us at the same time. It would be unfair to say that I barely knew her for she has been with us for 9 months but I do wish I could have gotten to know her better. I know I couldn't have loved her more but I'm sure both me and my wife would have loved to be able to show it to her in other ways.
Things always happen for a reason, but sometimes we are allowed to not accept it. Acceptance will come when it suppose too I guess but sometimes you wish you had a road map too it. The journey begins today for me and my family. All we can do is help guide each other to that destination. My dearest Xara, I know you will be there to help us along the way.
As a mother, I can't help but to feel for your sister in law. It's hard to accept the reality this hard. It's as though you've known your baby even if you've never met her but she has become a part of you and to let her go right after her arrival....I don't know if any mother can deal with that in a matter of a short period of time. She might heal down the road but the would will always be there. I hope she will find the strength to go through this difficult time. I'm saddened by the news even if I don't know her. But mothers....will always be mothers. Please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family, Jo. Be strong.
we all feel a great big hole in our hearts.
let us all grief together, and let us rejoice that Xara has touched us all.
our little angel is loved and deeply missed.